How to Stop Comparing Ourselves to Others

Sonee Singh
5 min readNov 20, 2018
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Measuring ourselves against others leads to feelings of insecurity and that we are not enough. Comparisons are draining and keep our focus on others rather than on ourselves. In the long-run, they hurt us.

There will always be people who have more than us, who can do more than us, and who have what we desire. Similarly, there will always be people who have less than us, do less than us, and…

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Sonee Singh

Novelist, poet, avid reader, Dr. of Divinity, cross-cultural seeker of deep knowing. Novels: Lonely Dove, Can You Be. Poetry books: Embody, Embrace, Embolden